So Long, Superwoman
As women, we are often sold several lies about our worth, our identity, and our enoughness. We are told we must do it all, have it all, be it all, or else our value diminishes, we are weak if we ask for help, and life is only lived if we are running ourselves into the ground.
In an overwhelming world that tells us we must be a superwoman instead of just a regular woman, Christina Herr calls it all out as false. In her So Long, Superwoman talk, which can be modified to fit a variety of lengths and purposes, Christina breaks down these lies using relatable and entertaining personal examples, shuts them down with Biblical truths, and lays down practical and empowering tips for moving forward in freedom.
The Case for Self-Care
This message is a call to stop putting our mental, physical, and emotional needs on the back burner, stop playing the martyr or victim, and start embracing who we are and what we need as women.
This lesson was hard-fought and processed over a long period of time by Christina as she navigated life as a working mother, a prior military spouse, and a caregiver for her mother. The audience will journey with Christina as she discusses, with equal parts humor and practicality, how to let go of guilt and what the Bible says about self-care.
Hugging Your Cactus
We are all made in God’s image, beautiful and loved by Him. But that doesn’t mean it’s easy for us to love every single person in our lives. There are people, even those for whom we care deeply, who make us feel like we are hugging a cactus.
This speaking set focuses on how to love those cacti in your own life, from setting healthy expectations and boundaries to how to engage them in productive conversation. Speaking from her life-long journey as a daughter to her mother who battled various mental illnesses, Christina delivers a message of grace, forgiveness, and hope that helps you learn to better love yourself and your most difficult people right where they are.
The Beautiful Mess of Motherhood
Motherhood. What a trip. What a joy. What a….mess? Well, yes, it can be but don’t feel bad. In the land of curated social media posts, mom-shaming, and an overabundance of parenting information, being a mom can be overwhelming and quite frankly, you might feel like a hot mess. Breathe. Relax. Take a square of chocolate out of your secret stash. Repeat after me: I am a good mother and I am doing better than I think.
In the Motherhood is Messy talk, Christina unpacks the three categories of mess we commonly see while raising littles (and not-so-littles): the physical, the literal (household-related), and the emotional. We break down why each one can feel so difficult, and then Christina shares what she has learned along the way about the joys, trials, and ironies of parenting, the importance of loving yourself, and the case for grace. She will also share, in a hope-filled and encouraging way, about how we as mothers are a vital, life-changing part of our family’s legacy.